‘OMG, I had that exact idea’

Ever heard yourself say this, when someone else on social media explains an idea you had?

Its like they took the words out of your mouth?

And now it feels as if your idea has been stolen!!!

In this post i'm going to speak to the part of you that feels bummed out that you didn't share the idea when you first realized it.

Do your best to stay with me, I know you may feel down about all the times you've done this, but trust me, there is something you can do about this happening again. I know this subject all to well, I have 100’s of unspoken truths and ideas, and i'm going to share in depth how this was overcome, so that you don't have to hold back one more genius idea!

That bummed out feeling you feel isn’t because they stole your ‘your idea’ it’s because you never spoke the words or shared the idea and now it is out in the world and you feel like it should have been you that birthed it...

But the reality is, you didn’t share it. In that moment, your choice was to not act on your idea

You were worried about people not agreeing with you

You were worried you would look silly

That you'd be judged

You spend so much time trying to tweak your message

That the essence becomes diluted

This is not about making you feel more guilty than you already do…

This is about guiding you through the real feelings that you suppress, I understand where you are and what you are feeling Sister girl, and you and I both know, its time...

I know the guilt of thinking ‘I should have said something,

I should have acted on that idea’

I know exactly how you beat up on yourself

I hear when you cry out ‘DAMMMN IT ALL’

Wishing you were more confident...

I know it so well Sister Girl.

Its time.

And I know how to help you.

Are you ready to get real with this behaviour?

Expressing your truth is not about how good you can market it

Expressing your truth comes naturally when you believe it is safe

Expressing your truth comes freely when you learn to accept yourself

Expressing your truth comes when you finally own all the things, you were afraid of people seeing

If you resonate with this message, chances are that you are struggling to speak what’s true for you because you are not ok with being seen with the darker baggage of feelings and experiences you are secretly carrying through life…

Its easier to mess yourself around not ever really experiencing your full potential

Because the alternative is that you may make a mistake so big that someone would want to find all the dirt they can on you, and show it to the world. It is fear of this magnitude, that exists deep in your psyche that you have let 100's of unsaid truths and genius ideas float out of your mind

You’d rather deal with your own regret

Than to deal with the wrath of the world

Should they see you for what you believe you are…Not good enough,not belonging, not lovable, unworthy

This purely your current belief and story. (which is B.S), and just remember beliefs and stories can always be re-written.

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